Ladies what would you do ? Guys what do you think ?
December 09, 2008 // Posted by: admin // Category: plus size bikiniSo I was talking to this girl in one of my classes the other day and she was telling me about her relationship and a problem that recently has came up..The problem was…
That she recently looked at her boyfriend’s camera while he was taking a shower and seen photos of girls in their bikinis, regular everyday clothing, some girls in shorts, etc..(Mainly their butts) and to find out these pictures were taken around his apartment complex. His apartment is close to a pool so I am guessing it was fairly easy for him to take these sort of pictures. He secretly took these pictures of course and the girls didn’t know he was taking these photos from what I understand.
She was telling me that these girls had a better body frame then her..
The thing I don’t get though is that she is a very beautiful somewhat plus size girl and from what I see a great personality. She showed me a photo of her bf and I was kind of in shock. He wasn’t that great looking..Anyways..She also told me she has been faithful..So she doesn’t understand what the problem is..She was also telling me that their relationship, sexual life was great until this happend.
She then began asking me what I thought and what she should probably do and I couldn’t give her an answer I was just speechless and sort of disgusted. I told her to let me think about it and I would tell her the next time I seen her..So I need advice to help give her advice !
Ladies dont you find this pervertedish/stalkerish ? Tell me what you think..
Guys why do you think he would do this ? Is it because he isn’t happy with what he has or that he needs mental help ?
Oh and some more info..
As far as she is aware he has also been faithful..Not cheating, etc..Until she found those images..and he is always telling her that she is the most important thing in his life and he doesn't want to lose her..
Blah blah..The same ol' crap..(I've heard this before) Poor girl..I need advice to give her advice people ! Help !
He’s a voyeur, nothing more, nothing less. They probably fuel his fantasies. Voyeurism can turn into something dangerous, and if he’s selling these pictures, obviously there are some privacy issues involved, but it’s not really at a point where something is seriously wrong.
Who cares if they’re better looking. This girl would be delusional if she thought she was the hottest girl on the planet. It doesn’t mean he’s unhappy with her or dissatisfied, and what he looks like doesn’t matter either. Guys will always look; it’s some kind of biological fact, lol. The fact that he took pictures tells me he is a voyeur and enjoys that aspect of it, but even if he wasn’t taking photos, I guarantee he’d be checking the girls out anyway.
Point is, there doesn’t have to be a problem for him to like looking at other girls. Her self-esteem must be low if she’s that concerned about it. I would tell her that it has nothing to do with her (because it doesn’t) and if her sex life is good and her relationship is good, there is nothing to worry about. I’m sure my boyfriend looks at other girls, and that’s fine; I’m the complete package, and he loves me, so I don’t worry about it.
I do understand the concern with voyeurism; perhaps she can read some articles about that and make a determination.